Can American Jewish Parents Defuse the Christmas
Seasonal Frenzy with Chanukah?
(Includes "Tex-Mex" Potato Latke Recipe
from "Divine Kosher (™) Cuisine Cookbook")
By Annette Keen 
Many years ago I came across an article that asked a
serious if rhetorical question. Is it possible in America for Jewish parents to
defuse the super commercially charged Christmas Holiday season and celebrate
Chanukah with their children in a nonmaterialistic, uncomplicated way? The
sophisticated, relentless annual barrage that commercializes the holiday season,
to the distress of many Christian parents also, is a double challenge to Jewish
parents, especially of small children.
The advice was as simple as it was profound. Teach your
children at Chanukah about the importance of the right not to assimilate, the
difference between admiring glitzy things and hankering after them. Our holiday
and theirs is about more than getting presents. Kids are smart, and they pick up
at a very early age what parents authentically value. To inculcate both Jewish
pride, tradition and values, parents must live their ideals. Make Judaism and
its celebrations, in this case Chanukah, a meaningful and shared experience for
the whole family by making the synagogue, religious school and home connection
early in your life and the lives of your children. Here are some suggestions.
Start early: Children
begin early to sort out their identities. Encourage them to talk about their
feelings of inundation or confusion at this time of year. There is
understandable anxiety in being a minority; every child wants to belong. Stress
the upside to being unique, having a special heritage of courage, heroism and
pride.
Send them to
Hebrew School: For formal instruction and camaraderie, Jewish education is
crucial.
Teach by
example: Attend synagogue services, and enjoy home celebrations with family and
friends.
Make Chanukah
meaningful: Endow your holiday with things that delight, educate and
personalize. You can give each child his or her own menorah to light, so that
the house is enchantingly aglow each evening. Encourage kids to display their
menorahs in their room year round with other Judaic items.
It’s not only about
receiving gifts: Have kids also give holiday gifts. They can bring used toys,
books and clothes to a hospital pediatric floor, or to a shelter.
Feed kids' senses: Fill
your home with the aromas of special holiday foods, both traditional and trendy.
(See recipe below.)
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Chanukah
Recipe
“Tex-Mex” Potato Latkes Heat Up Chanukah
From Divine (tm) Kosher Cuisine Cookbook
By Annette Keen
1 cup corn
½ cup chopped
onions
2 chopped green onions
3 tablespoon chopped green pepper
3 tablespoon chopped red pepper
1 tablespoon grated ginger root
2 minced garlic cloves
1
teaspoon chopped fresh dill
1 teaspoon chopped
fresh cilantro
1 teaspoon ground cumin
1 teaspoon salt
½ teaspoon
pepper
½ cup flour
½
teaspoon baking powder
2 large eggs separated
vegetable frying oil
Caliente Sour Cream
Mix all ingredients together except egg whites and oil.
Beat whites at mixer high speed until stiff. Fold into corn mixture. Spoon in
batter by tablespoons into skillet of heated oil Fry each side until golden
brown. Drain. Serve with Caliente Sour Cream.